July 16th 2008
Productivity
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This post was written for Organize IT by Shanel Yang. You can check out her blog, Easy Steps To Success, where she regularly provides lessons and advice on how to be successful with people, work and money. Check out top posts such as How To Set And Achieve Goals In 5 Simple Steps and 10 Harmful Thoughts.
Is your main focus to be as productive as humanly possible, accomplishing more in one lifetime than you ever imagined possible? Or, are you more interested in slowing down your life and simplifying it, so you can enjoy it at a more leisurely pace? What will bring you the most happiness?
It seems that there is a plethora of self-help advice out there but not enough real wisdom about what works for you as opposed to him or her or somebody else. Your unique personality matters and happiness is not a one-size fits all t-shirt. Rather, it’s a “what’s your natural rhythm and flow?” bespoke suit and it needs to be taken in or out as you personally change over time. Sometimes, it needs to be completely thrown out and a new suit custom-made for you. But that depends entirely on, first and foremost, you.
What this means is before you jump on the bandwagon and join the latest fad in productivity, efficiency, proficiency, frugality, creativity, simplicity, or fill-in-the blank road to happiness, stop and ask yourself this important question: “Will this new method work for me?” If you don’t ask this question before you run out and buy the books, CDs, DVDs, products, services, and/or memberships promising happiness, chances are high that you are throwing away your money – not to mention your time, which is surely even more valuable! Why? I know a lot of people are going to be shocked by what I’m about to say next; but I’ll say it anyway: You are either a productivity-inclined person or a simplicity-inclined person.
Of course, we all want to be both and we are all a little of both. But, each of us is more productivity-inclined or more simplicity-inclined. The quicker you find out which one you are, the better you will be able to sift through all new self-help advice to pass on the ones that obviously don’t fit you and zero in on the ones that might fit, so that you can at least try those on for size.
Productivity-inclined people
What does it mean to be productivity-inclined? It’s not an official term. In fact, I just made it up for this post, but it captures the mindset of people who want to always get more and more done in the same 24 hour period. They are drawn to complex methods for maximizing every minute of their lives, such as Getting Things Done by Dave Allen or The Four Hour Work Week by Tim Ferriss. People who succeed using these methods are successful at highly-regimented routines. But, not everyone works that way, or wants to.
I personally hate tight schedules and impossible deadlines. But, I endured them for over ten years while I was working in various law firms as an attorney. Yet I saw colleagues who thrived in that type of hyper-charged, always “go-go-go!” environment. Sure, I learned to walk the walk of working like that but that doesn’t mean I liked it. In fact I despised it. And, when I finally left lawyering to start blogging - though I was grateful for all the lessons that working like that taught me - I was even more grateful that I could get off that crazy rollercoaster ride. Can you tell that I’m a simplicity-inclined person?
The few colleagues who loved that breakneck speed are sure to shoot straight to the top in the corporate world and we don’t have to wonder when they’ll ever stop to smell the roses because they won’t. They are thrilled to rush right past everything for some greater ultimate goal. The speed is part of the fun. They have found their eternal bliss. It just happens to be my nightmare. I am still very productive but I prefer to do it in a much less regimented way than suggested by Dave Allen or Tim Ferriss. I’ve found a productivity guru that better suits my personality, Brian Tracy.
Simplicity-inclined people
What does it mean to be simplicity-inclined? In a phrase, less is more. I believe that goals don’t have to be lists of more than say, thirteen steps. Ordinarily, even that number seems too high, but Napoleon Hill made it work with his thirteen steps to riches in the immortal Think And Grow Rich. My favorite productivity guru is Brian Tracy who wrote Eat that Frog! Even though Tracy has 21 tips in his book, those tips are not meant to be taken in any particular order – or even have all of them to be used by everyone, for that matter. Rather, each is a very short, simple, insanely practical tip for us to cherry-pick based on our understanding of ourselves and knowing what does work and what doesn’t work for us. Perfect for someone as simplicity-inclined as I am! I actually like all 21 tips and have used all of them in different circumstances.
Incidentally, I summarized on my blog not only Think And Grow Rich and Eat that Frog! but also my third favorite self help book of all time, Dale Carnegie’s How To Make Friends And Influence People. As with the first two, How To Make Friends offers advice that is almost too simple – inherently commonsensical – yet we forget even the greatest tips unless we review them often. From my simplicity-inclined mindset, these three books are all I need to succeed in life.
I do read more books from time to time just to keep abreast of the latest trends but these three custom-fitted suits still look smashing on me, so I have no intention of casting them off for any newer styles just yet. Anyway, I find that all the newer styles so far aren’t really new but just flashier versions of Think And Grow Rich or How To Make Friends. Even Eat that Frog! is a redo of much of these other two. But, the inimitable clarity and brevity of Eat that Frog! earned it a permanent slot on my very short favorite self-help books list.
Conclusion
Find out which type of self-help personality you are, productivity-inclined or simplicity-inclined. Then, seek out the right style of personal development for your personality type. If you are an introvert you wouldn’t try to find a friend at crowded parties, would you? And if you’re an extrovert you wouldn’t slowly go about looking for partners with similar interests at much smaller, quiet gatherings, right? Well, neither should you try to take the advice of a personal development guru that similarly just doesn’t fit your own personal inclinations. “Different strokes for different folks” is an expression that fits all areas of our lives. Be respectful of your own nature. Follow your instincts. Be awesome, and be your own hero!
Pascal Venier:
July 16th, 2008 at 9:27 pm