‘Someday’ Is A Disease, Do You Suffer From It?

November 23, 2009  Productivity

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Someday in the future I want to get out of my apartment and get a house complete with a garden. I’ll be able to play my music as loud as I want and have somewhere to kick a football around. Someday, maybe in a few years time, I want to learn a new language and write a book. Someday. Maybe… If this sounds like the sort of thing you say, a quick trip to the productivity doctor would probably reveal that you’re suffering from a bout of Someday disease.

I think that everybody gets Someday disease (also known as Someday syndrome) nowadays, it’s as widespread as the common cold. Whether it be a big hobby you want to try or that company revamp you’d like to implement, that classic film you’ve always wanted to see or that friend you feel like catching up with, ask yourself why you’re putting off doing all these things. Then consider this quote by Tim Ferriss of The 4-Hour Work Week which probably sums it up best:

“Conditions are never perfect. ‘Someday’ is a disease that will take your dreams to the grave with you. If it’s important to you and you want to do it ‘eventually’, just do it and correct course along the way.”

From my experience I’ve found Someday disease manifests itself with a certain mindset. A sufferer of the disease will believe that conditions have to be just right – that they have to know enough, have enough, etc. In other words they believe all pieces of the jigsaw have to be in place before then can take action. This is well intentioned but in the real world grossly naive.

When it comes to overcoming Someday disease you have to change your perceptions and realize, as Tim Ferris pointed out, that conditions will never be perfect for you to start and that it’s easier too just set off and correct course as you go, rather than waiting around for the right winds in order to set sail. With all this in mind, the following are the two key mantras you need to follow if you want to break free from this ‘Someday’ mentality.

  • There is never such a thing as the right time
    When you’re waiting for the right time to do something, what you’re really saying is you’re waiting till you’ve run out of excuses to start. Very rarely will everything come together perfectly and at the right time. You might have enough money but not enough time, you might have a great idea but not enough knowledge or experience… whatever the excuse understand that things will never come together unless you take action first.
  • You learn more by taking action
    Reading and researching or waiting till you have enough experience is all well and good, but none of it compares to practical training in the field. You learn the most by doing and from making mistakes. However, putting yourself out like that can be scary or unpleasant, so we’ll often slip into the ‘right time’ excuse until we feel like we know and understand enough.

Next week I will do a followup piece that looks at several practical techniques to help you overcome the influence of Someday disease. However, in the meantime remember the two rules above and share your experiences in the comments.

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There are currently 5 responses to this post

  1. Rob says:

    Excellent post. As I keep saying to myself, decide it then do it. Waiting gets you nowhere.

  2. Jonathan says:

    I immediately thought this article could be interesting. I stared at it and planned to read it someday. Hopefully I changed my mind a few minutes later.

  3. Rafal says:

    Someday can be a dangerous ground. You can lose yourself in indecisiveness. Yet there are things that we need to ponder on, let them brew inside our heads or hearts and not necessarily take any action. We don’t want to have them right in front of us but perhaps just on the back of a someday list where they won’t be forgotten about.

  4. Shane says:

    Do I suffer from ‘Someday’ disease? Do I ever!

    Seriously, there are so many things I want/plan to do someday, it’s mind-boggling. However, my main problem is that my days are limited to 24 hours and there’s only 365 of them in every year. I wonder if it’s just me or if there are many others out there who are interested in and passionate about so many things that they can’t fit them into their lives…

    So, my problem is not that I’m sitting here, twiddling my thumbs, dreaming of someday, it’s that I am pushing stuff to someday because today and next week are already booked solid.

    Working on it, though.

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